Jill says
Don’t interrupt. I want to be with someone who likes me for the things about myself that I like too. Or the things they like that I didn’t even know. Like am I funny? Maybe someone who thinks I’m really funny. And someone who loves the color of my hair. Like that. When I talk, you don’t understand me. I say things and your mind drifts and I know you’re not really smart enough to get me. And I’m pretty sure there are great things about me but if I stay with you, I will never know because I will see myself the way you see me. I will get stuck there. Because you’re kind of overbearing in your world view. And I think you don’t really see me. Or you do but in a blurry way. You’re looking somewhere else and you see me out of the corner of your eye and so you have a general idea but you never really see me because you can’t stop putting things on top of me that aren’t really me.